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Psychodynamic Therapy

Uncover deeper patterns, explore unconscious influences, and create meaningful change through the transformative process of psychodynamic therapy.

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Discover Deeper Understanding & Lasting Change

Psychodynamic therapy is a depth-oriented approach that helps you explore the unconscious patterns that influence your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. By examining how your past experiences—particularly those from childhood—continue to shape your present life, this therapeutic approach creates opportunities for profound self-awareness and meaningful change.

At Hisparadise Therapy, our psychodynamic approach goes beyond addressing immediate symptoms to uncover and resolve the underlying causes of emotional challenges. This creates lasting transformation rather than temporary relief.

This powerful form of therapy is particularly effective for individuals who want to understand themselves more deeply, who find themselves repeating unhelpful patterns in relationships or life choices, or who struggle with persistent emotional difficulties that haven't responded well to more symptom-focused approaches.

Thoughtful psychotherapy session

Our Therapeutic Approach

Our approach to psychodynamic therapy integrates classical psychoanalytic insights with contemporary research and techniques. This creates a therapeutic experience that is both deeply insightful and practically effective for today's challenges.

Central to our practice is the therapeutic relationship itself—a safe, non-judgmental space where unconscious patterns can emerge and be explored. Your therapist serves as a compassionate guide in this process, helping you recognize patterns as they appear in your thoughts, feelings, and the therapeutic relationship itself.

Key elements of our psychodynamic approach include:

  • Free Association: Following your thoughts wherever they lead to uncover meaningful connections
  • Dream Analysis: Exploring dreams as windows into unconscious material
  • Transference Work: Examining how past relationship patterns emerge in the therapeutic relationship
  • Defense Mechanism Identification: Recognizing how you protect yourself from difficult emotions
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Building Safety & Alliance

We begin by establishing a secure therapeutic relationship where you feel comfortable exploring vulnerable areas without judgment.

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Uncovering Patterns

Together we identify recurring themes and patterns in your life, relationships, and emotional experiences that may have unconscious origins.

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Exploring Origins

We examine how early experiences and relationships have shaped your internal world, defense mechanisms, and attachment patterns.

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Integration & Change

With new awareness, you can make more conscious choices, develop healthier patterns, and create meaningful change in your life and relationships.

Benefits of Psychodynamic Therapy

Deeper Self-Understanding

Gain profound insights into your inner world, motivations, and the unconscious patterns that shape your experiences and choices.

Break Unhealthy Patterns

Identify and transform recurring patterns in relationships and behaviors that have been holding you back from fulfillment.

Resolve Past Traumas

Process and integrate difficult past experiences that continue to impact your emotional well-being and relationships.

Healthier Defense Mechanisms

Develop more adaptive ways of protecting yourself emotionally without limiting your capacity for connection and authenticity.

Improved Relationships

Create more fulfilling connections by understanding how your attachment history influences your current relationship dynamics.

Lasting Psychological Growth

Experience enduring change that continues to unfold and deepen even after therapy ends, rather than temporary symptom relief.

Issues We Address

Persistent Emotional Difficulties
Relationship Patterns
Identity & Self-Worth
Unresolved Trauma

Persistent Emotional Difficulties

Many people experience emotional challenges that persist despite their best efforts to overcome them. Psychodynamic therapy is particularly effective at addressing these deep-seated emotional patterns by exploring their unconscious roots.

We commonly work with clients experiencing:

  • Chronic depression that hasn't fully responded to other approaches
  • Persistent anxiety that seems disconnected from current circumstances
  • Unexplained feelings of emptiness or meaninglessness
  • Emotional numbness or difficulty accessing certain feelings
  • Overwhelming emotions that seem disproportionate to situations
  • Lingering grief that doesn't resolve with time

Through psychodynamic exploration, you can discover the deeper meanings and origins of these emotional patterns, allowing for healing at their source rather than just managing symptoms.

Recurring Relationship Patterns

If you find yourself repeatedly encountering the same difficulties in relationships despite your conscious intentions to change, psychodynamic therapy can help you understand and transform these patterns.

Common relationship patterns we address include:

  • Repeatedly choosing partners who are emotionally unavailable or unhealthy
  • Difficulty maintaining closeness in relationships
  • Patterns of abandonment or rejection
  • Excessive people-pleasing or difficulty setting boundaries
  • Conflicts between desire for connection and fear of intimacy
  • Replaying dynamics from your family of origin in current relationships

By examining how early attachment experiences create templates for current relationships, psychodynamic therapy helps you develop more secure and satisfying connections with others.

Identity & Self-Worth Struggles

Questions of who you are, what you truly want, and your inherent value are deeply influenced by unconscious factors. Psychodynamic therapy provides a powerful framework for exploring and resolving identity and self-worth challenges.

We often work with individuals facing:

  • Persistent feelings of inadequacy despite external achievements
  • Harsh self-criticism and perfectionism
  • Difficulty identifying your authentic desires and values
  • Conflict between different aspects of yourself
  • A sense of being an impostor in your own life
  • Deriving self-worth primarily from others' approval

Through psychodynamic work, you can develop a more integrated sense of self and recognize your inherent worth beyond external validation or achievement.

Unresolved Trauma

Traumatic experiences can continue to affect your emotional life, relationships, and sense of self long after the events have passed. Psychodynamic therapy offers a gentle yet thorough approach to processing and integrating these experiences.

Our trauma-informed psychodynamic work addresses:

  • Childhood emotional neglect or abuse
  • Attachment trauma from early caregiving relationships
  • Complex trauma from prolonged exposure to difficult circumstances
  • Intergenerational trauma patterns passed through families
  • The subtle impacts of developmental or relational trauma
  • Dissociation or emotional disconnection as adaptations to trauma

We create a safe, containing space where traumatic experiences can be gradually approached, understood in their full context, and integrated into your life narrative in a way that allows for healing and growth.

Meet Your Psychodynamic Therapist

Dr. Johnny Ukeme N., our founder and lead therapist, specializes in psychodynamic therapy. With over 15 years of experience and extensive training in depth psychology, he brings exceptional insight and compassion to this profound therapeutic approach.

Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology with specialization in Psychodynamic Theory
Advanced Training in Modern Psychoanalytic Techniques
Certified in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy
15+ years of clinical experience with depth psychology approaches
More About Dr. Johnny
Dr. Johnny Ukeme N. - Psychodynamic Therapist

Client Experiences

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Finding Myself After Years of Feeling Lost

Ngozi A.

I came to therapy after years of struggling with a vague but persistent sense of emptiness and disconnection. Despite external success in my career, something felt fundamentally missing. Working with Dr. Sarah through psychodynamic therapy helped me understand how childhood experiences of emotional neglect had left me disconnected from my own needs and feelings. As we explored these patterns, I gradually reconnected with parts of myself I had abandoned long ago. This process wasn't always easy, but it was profoundly liberating. I now feel a sense of solidity and authenticity that I never thought possible. For the first time, I feel like I'm truly living my own life rather than the one I thought I should have.

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Breaking the Cycle of Failed Relationships

Jonathan K.

After my third serious relationship ended in the same painful way, I knew I needed to understand why I kept repeating this pattern. Through psychodynamic therapy, I discovered how my fear of abandonment was actually causing me to sabotage relationships before they could reach a deeper level of commitment. Dr. Sarah helped me trace this pattern back to early childhood experiences and understand how it was playing out in my adult relationships. The most powerful moments came when I recognized these patterns emerging in our therapeutic relationship itself. This work wasn't just about intellectual understanding—it was about experiencing and working through these emotions in a new way. I'm now in a healthy relationship that has surpassed the point where others failed, and I have tools to recognize and address old patterns when they emerge.

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Finding Relief from Lifelong Anxiety

Amaka O.

I had tried various approaches for my anxiety, from medication to cognitive techniques. While these helped manage symptoms, the anxiety always returned. Psychodynamic therapy with Dr. Sarah was different—instead of just managing symptoms, we explored what my anxiety was trying to tell me. I discovered that my constant worry was connected to childhood experiences where I had to be hypervigilant to feel safe. As we worked through these deeper patterns, something remarkable happened: my anxiety didn't just become more manageable, it fundamentally transformed. I still experience anxiety sometimes, but it no longer controls my life. More importantly, I now understand myself in a way that makes me feel more whole and integrated. This approach took more time than quick-fix techniques, but the results have been so much more profound and lasting.

Pricing & Packages

Single Session

₦25,000

50-minute psychodynamic therapy session

  • In-depth psychological exploration
  • Personalized therapeutic approach
  • Safe space for emotional processing
  • In-person or secure video options
  • No long-term commitment required

Exploration Package

₦113,000

5 sessions (10% discount)

  • Comprehensive psychological assessment
  • Consistent weekly sessions
  • Greater continuity in therapeutic work
  • Deeper pattern recognition
  • Email support between sessions
  • Recommended for meaningful exploration

Transformation Package

₦200,000

10 sessions (20% discount)

  • All benefits of Exploration Package
  • Extended 75-minute initial session
  • Deeper unconscious pattern work
  • Priority scheduling
  • Recommended journaling practices
  • Ideal for substantial psychological change

* Psychodynamic therapy is often most effective as an ongoing process. Long-term work (6+ months) is available at additional discounted rates.

Frequently Asked Questions

How is psychodynamic therapy different from other approaches?

Psychodynamic therapy differs from other approaches in several key ways:

  • Depth vs. Symptoms: While approaches like CBT focus primarily on changing specific thoughts and behaviors, psychodynamic therapy explores the deeper psychological forces that create and maintain these patterns.
  • Past Influences: Psychodynamic therapy pays particular attention to how early life experiences, especially those in childhood, continue to influence present feelings and behaviors.
  • Unconscious Processes: This approach recognizes that much of our mental life operates outside our awareness, and works to bring unconscious patterns into consciousness where they can be examined and changed.
  • Therapeutic Relationship: The relationship between client and therapist becomes an important tool for understanding relationship patterns, with transference (projecting feelings from past relationships onto the therapist) being actively explored.

Rather than focusing solely on symptom reduction, psychodynamic therapy aims for deeper structural change in how you experience yourself and relate to others. While it may take longer than some approaches, research shows it often leads to changes that continue to deepen after therapy ends.

How long does psychodynamic therapy typically take?

The duration of psychodynamic therapy varies widely depending on your specific needs, goals, and the depth of the issues being addressed. Generally:

  • Brief psychodynamic therapy: Can range from 20-30 sessions (approximately 6-8 months) and focuses on specific issues or patterns.
  • Medium-term therapy: Often lasts 1-2 years, allowing for more thorough exploration and integration of insights.
  • Long-term therapy: For more complex issues or those seeking deeper transformation, therapy may continue for 2+ years.

What distinguishes psychodynamic therapy is that meaningful change often continues and even accelerates after therapy ends, as the insights and new patterns of relating continue to integrate and develop.

We'll discuss timeframe expectations based on your specific situation during the assessment phase, and regularly review progress to ensure the therapy is meeting your needs. Some clients also choose to move from more intensive weekly sessions to less frequent "maintenance" sessions as they progress.

Will we only talk about my childhood?

No, psychodynamic therapy does not focus exclusively on childhood, though early experiences are recognized as formative. The therapy involves a dynamic interplay between past and present, examining how historical patterns manifest in your current life.

A typical psychodynamic therapy session might include:

  • Discussion of current challenges, emotions, and relationships
  • Exploration of recurring patterns or themes in your present life
  • Connecting present experiences to their historical roots when relevant
  • Paying attention to dreams, fantasies, and free associations
  • Examining the therapy relationship itself as it reflects other relationship patterns

The goal is not to dwell in the past, but to understand how the past continues to influence the present in ways that may limit your fulfillment and choices. This understanding creates the freedom to respond differently in the present.

Is psychodynamic therapy evidence-based?

Yes, psychodynamic therapy has a strong evidence base supporting its effectiveness. While earlier research focused more on other therapy approaches, recent decades have seen substantial high-quality research validating psychodynamic methods:

  • Multiple meta-analyses (studies that combine results from many research trials) show psychodynamic therapy to be as effective as other evidence-based treatments for a wide range of conditions.
  • Research demonstrates that the benefits of psychodynamic therapy tend to increase over time after therapy ends, rather than diminishing.
  • Studies show psychodynamic therapy is particularly effective for complex conditions involving personality organization, chronic emotional difficulties, and relationship patterns.
  • Research supports that the length of treatment correlates with outcomes, with longer-term psychodynamic therapy showing stronger and more durable results for complex issues.

Modern psychodynamic practice continues to evolve based on research findings, integrating neurobiological understanding and attachment theory with traditional psychodynamic insights.

What if I need more immediate symptom relief?

While psychodynamic therapy focuses on deeper patterns and lasting change, we recognize that immediate symptom relief is sometimes necessary. We take a flexible approach that can address both immediate needs and underlying issues:

  • In early sessions, we can integrate practical coping strategies from approaches like CBT or mindfulness to help manage acute symptoms.
  • We may suggest a combined approach that includes both psychodynamic exploration and more directive techniques when appropriate.
  • For some clients, medication in conjunction with therapy provides necessary relief while deeper psychological work proceeds (we can coordinate with psychiatrists or medical doctors).
  • If crisis stabilization is needed, we prioritize safety and symptom management before proceeding to more exploratory work.

Our primary goal is to meet you where you are and provide the type of support that best addresses your current needs. We'll discuss options for balancing immediate relief with longer-term resolution during your assessment.

Begin Your Journey of Self-Discovery

Take the first step toward deeper self-understanding and lasting transformation. Our psychodynamic approach offers a path to meaningful change that continues to unfold long after therapy ends.